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Anna's Angel Update: November 2007
We're approaching another Thanksgiving and we have so much to be
thankful for! We've had another six months of precious life with
Anna since our last update. When Anna was a little girl, it became a
tradition in our home to think of three things to thank God for every
night at bedtime (never repeating the same one on another night!) It
was just a sweet bedtime ritual when she was very young, but as she has
faced cancer and some of life's greatest trials, it has become
became a particularly special gift. It's amazing how life changing
gratefulness can be.
But as all "cancer families" understand so well, our
gratefulness never quite outweighs the uncertainty in our hearts when
the date of the next MRI is looming. We constantly pray for all our
friends, rejoicing with some and grieving with others as their results
come back. And of course we pray for cures and for our amazing doctors
and nurses. This month we also pray for good MRI results again for
Anna.
The lives and the hearts of the families that you allow us to touch are
filled with despair. They are trapped in thoughts of their child's
shattered lives, mounting bills, loneliness, and fear of what the future
holds. But the grace you offer them through your gifts is like a much
needed rain on their terribly parched hearts. There is nothing sadder
or lonelier than grieving without hope, although sometimes I wonder if
they realize just how lonely and hurt they are - until the hope you
give them begins to make it more bearable. Your generosity doesn't
lessen their grief, but your expressions of love absolutely do help heal
their hearts.
We've seen examples of it over and over again. One of the most
recent - a precious little girl. There's a part of her that truly
believes she is now a princess because of the way she has been treated
by our angels. And this belief has become her saving grace. She is
filled with absolute and pure joy as she puts her new crown on her
sweet, bald head. When she needs it most, she returns to her world of
being a princess and escapes the fear and sadness of her fight against
cancer. You have made her a princess and she insists that she has much
less time to be sick now. In a hurry to get past her relentless
setbacks, "the princess" pushes through her pain again and
again, determined to return to the joy of the fantasy world you helped
her create for herself.
All of the children come back to life a little each time our angels
allow us to provide what they need most. And more than once the
families, and even the children, have been known to ask if God sent
these angels to them. We wish we could be there to hear those words and
tell them emphatically, "Yes!" Here are those you have
sprinkled with hope and life since our last update...
$166.90 J.C. Penney, $50 QuikTrip Gas Card, $170 Spa Sydell Gift Card,
$159.15 Old Navy Clothing (for Aunt), $551.84 Target Clothing, shoes and
a few toys for the children
One of the saddest stories, and yet one of the sweetest we've ever
heard. A nine year old little girl (the patient) and her two little
brothers lost their mother 2½ years ago to Lupus. (There is no
father in their lives.) Soon after they suffered that loss, the little
girl also was forced to live with physical and sexual abuse at the hands
of two uncles in her family. Not only was this child grieving the loss
of her only parent and a victim of a disgusting crime in her own home,
she was also diagnosed with an unusually severe case of sickle cell.
This poor child's bones have deteriorated so quickly that she will
soon need to have both hips replaced. Somehow, through it all, her
social worker says this precious child always manages to have a smile on
her face and makes the best of everything.
The great news for these three children is that they are now being
raised by a 25 yr. old aunt, who has come to their rescue. She has
taken them in and loves them as if they're her own, in spite of the
fact that she is a single mother herself, with a very young son who also
has sickle cell. What an admirable young woman she is. She is fighting
hard for custody of these children and we think she is nothing short of
amazing - and a godsend for these children. The children's
needs for clothing and shoes were great, but we didn't want to leave
her out. We made sure she also got new clothes and most of all, a well
deserved ½ day at Spa Sydell to treat herself.
$1671.14 ($290 Sprint, $240.51 Eagle Bank for car payment, $43.54 water
bill, $97.09 sewer bill, $1000 check for cash.
These bills and this cash were sent to a family in Kentucky that Larry heard about at work.
A single mom who worked on one of his accounts had a seven year old
daughter with a brain tumor. This mom had worked very few hours in the
last few months, determined to spend as much time as possible with her
daughter who was now in the care of hospice. Things had gotten so tight
financially for her that she and her children had moved in with her
ex-husband and his new wife to help make ends meet and to make life as
smooth as possible for their very sick daughter. Their hospice worker
was so impressed with this family and how determined they were to rise
above any of their own personal issues to make this situation work for
this precious little girl. We were, too. And because of you, we were
able to let them know and to help take a little of the financial
pressure off of them. What a special family. This little girl passed
away on Oct. 6th.
$70 Spa Sydell for one hour massage, $747.15 Target for clothing, dolls
and educational toys.
For a newly diagnosed 7 yr. old cancer patient,
her single mom and 3 yr old sister. Mom was recently fired from her job
due to being hospitalized herself and according to the child's
social worker, she has very limited resources. This 7 yr. old little
girl is now blind due to her brain tumor and mom is extremely stressed
about her needs for a special school or at least a special program for
the blind. However, even more pressing, right now her children just
need clothes that fit them. Thanks to our angels, we could lift that
load and give this mom a break, too. Our angels provided the children
and mom with new clothes, shoes, and winter coats, and gave mom a much
needed massage at Spa Sydell, too.
$399.80 Target, $170 Spa Sydell, $697.03 Old Navy for clothing, shoes,
school supplies and an Ipod.
9 yr. old little girl with cancer. Has a
12 yr. old sister and a 17 yr. old sister. All three girls are being
raised by their grandparents. The 9 yr. old little girl, who is
extremely shy, is going through chemotherapy treatments. Although she
has a wig, the kids at school are constantly teasing her about being
bald. Her social worker thought maybe a little "back to school"
shopping spree on her behalf might cheer her up and make her feel better
about herself. Also, she let us know that these grandparents were
fabulous, but elderly and absolutely worn out. They had no extra money
for themselves or for the kids and she was hopeful that Anna might have
the money to do something nice for them as well. She did. Thank you so
much!
$320 Stacy's Pharmacy for chemotherapy
Anna was confused about this
request because it was for chemo and yet we knew this little friend was
in the care of hospice. We learned that the chemo was not to try to
heal him, but just to keep his cancer "in check" enough to help
manage his pain. He was on Medicaid and it wouldn't cover
compounding his medications, so his social worker and his doctor were
hopeful that Anna might be able to help. Thank goodness she was. This
little boy is very special to us.
$200 Kroger, $400 QuikTrip, $273.42 Target, $286.87 J.C. Penney
This patient is a 14 yr. old girl and just lost her 11 yr. old brother in
June. He had the same diagnosis and had just gone through the same
surgery this young girl had. There is another 17 yr. old brother in the
family who seems to be healthy. This family has just relocated to
Atlanta from Missouri, desperate not to lose another child. They were
willing to do anything for her and came to Atlanta to get the best care
possible for her, but the temporary housing they chose was unsafe. They
had already been stolen from once and didn't have much to begin
with. Their social worker was helping them find better housing but
asked if Anna might be able to help with school clothes, groceries and
gas to get them to/from the hospital. Because they've just lost a
child and now have to fight with a second one, we understood when their
social worker said that their stress level was "through the
roof". Their needs were great and we knew that anything Anna could
do to relieve some of that stress would be helpful.
$1231.60 Wachovia Bank Paid mortgage payment for a family of a 4 yr.
old little girl.
Her cancer came back with a vengeance and both parents
took an unpaid leave to spend time with her before she passed away. Her
dad desperately wanted to continue to stay with her until she was gone,
but the mortgage company was demanding payment. Their social worker
contacted us, asking if we could help so that he could continue taking
more time off with his little girl. There was no choice to make here.
Because of you, mom and dad were both there with her when the angels
came for their child. How can we possibly thank you for that? There is
no more precious gift.
$800 QuikTrip
Gas Cards to four different bone marrow transplant
families who have to travel long distances for treatment. These
families were desperate for help with gas expenses to bring their
children to Atlanta for their cancer treatments. You took care of it.
$299.80 Target (Plus $100 donated by our family) Pantry items,
blankets, mattress pads, DVDs, disposable cameras, and cleaning products
donated to the Ronald McDonald House.
These items were donated, in memory of our precious little friend Catie Wilkins, on what would have
been her 5th birthday. Catie was very special to us and there is never
a day that passes when our hearts don't ache for her family, for her
new baby sister who will have to wait to meet her in heaven, and for a
world that was robbed of knowing another amazing child, because of this
disease that we hate so much called pediatric cancer. We love and
miss you, Catie.
$800 Cash
Cash to help a family who was going to New York for a "last
resort" treatment, desperately looking for hope. Their social
worker asked if we could help with expenses for their trip. Our angels
said "absolutely" with their gifts.
$630 Carden Properties
Paid rent for a foster mom who was in the
process of adopting this little boy. He was having a bone marrow
transplant so she was unable to return to work. She'd taken a day
away from him to have a yard sale to try to make her car payment but
still could not pay her rent. She was this little boy's angel -
and you were hers. Thank you.
$150 Wal-Mart gift card for a little boy just diagnosed with leukemia.
His dad works in North Carolina and hadn't worked in two weeks. He
just couldn't bring himself to leave his little boy. He also had
two other children. His social worker asked if we might be able to just
give him a little help with gas and food and she requested a $150 gift
card from Wal-Mart to help them out. How sweet that this dad
couldn't leave his son. And how sweet that you, our angels, would
allow him to stay there with him.
$500 QuikTrip gas card
This card was bought for the family of a 12 yr.
old little boy who is from a single parent home. His mother stays with
him at the hospital while his grandparents keep his two siblings,
bringing them to see him every day. It puts quite a financial strain on
them however, so the child's social worker asked if Anna could help
with gas expenses.
$32.23 ToysRUs for three backpacks, $1146.23 Old Navy, and $1119 Target
for clothing, shoes, school supplies and toys for a family with eight
children (ages 10 months-10yrs).
This is a family of refugees from
Nigeria. The father of these children is in prison and, to say that
their mother is overwhelmed could not be a greater understatement. She
has two very sick children (both have extremely severe blood disorders
called Severe Combined Immunodeficiency Syndrome (SCIDs). She has no
idea how to write a check or refill a prescription. In her culture,
women are forbidden to make decisions or have any independence. Now
complete independence is required of her. It's hard to imagine the
daily conflicts and fears this mother faces as she wrestles with
cultural acclimation, her children's illnesses and now being a
single mother of eight. Their social worker said their needs were
tremendous. They had no school supplies and needed clothing and shoes.
Knowing that these children all loved the Disney Channel made it fun to
shop for them! It took a little time, but we found Disney
Channel-related backpacks for all the older children and some Hannah
Montana and High School Musical gifts for the older girls. Everybody
got plenty of clothes and shoes (including mom), and the children got
their school supplies as well, thanks to your generosity.
$1502.82 Midland Mortgage Company
Paid two house payments for the
family of a five yr. old little boy who had relapsed neuroblastoma.
Mom works at Kroger and dad is unemployed. The financial and emotional
stress of their situation was unimaginable. They had already
restructured their mortgage but were still on the verge of foreclosure,
until you came in and opened your hearts and your wallets to them. What
a special gift at such a heart wrenching time in the life of this
family.
$1266.06 ($389.08 Sprint, $250.98 City of Baldwin, $211.96 Franklin
Financial, $414.12 Drive)
Anna chose to pay these bills for a 16 yr. old girl who had made a
mistake and was pregnant. To drastically complicate things for this
young girl, she was diagnosed with AML (a form of leukemia) just one
week before giving birth. Her boyfriend, the father of her baby, was
staying with her at the hospital and her mother was taking care of her
new baby. Everybody's lives were turned upside down. They were
devastated, afraid, and now this grandmother who was now back in the
role of being a mother was suddenly unable to support herself or her
family. She was terribly behind on several of her bills. But you gave
her a little room to breathe.
$500 ($300 QuikTrip Gas Card, $100 Kroger Gift Card, $100 Target Gift
Card)
An 8 yr. old girl from Columbus, GA who had come to Atlanta for a
bone marrow transplant with her sister as the donor. Her social worker
contacted us to request help for them. She said they had no other
resources and felt they'd gotten very overwhelmed with their travel
and living expenses.
$2000 Thomas Funeral Home
This six year old little girl passed away
just seven months after her diagnosis with a Glioblastoma brain tumor.
Anna was asked by the Brain Tumor Foundation For Children if she could
help this family pay for their child's funeral. Anna was able to
send $2000 to the funeral home to help with their expenses.
This update includes fewer examples of gifts from Anna's Angel Fund
than usual. For the first time, we've had to make some very
difficult choices because the requests for Anna's help have greatly
outweighed the donations to her Angel Fund. Choosing which children to
help has been very hard but we have had to trust that some of these
children and families were meant to be wrapped up in the love of other
angels. Anna truly believed that the children and families above were
"the ones she was supposed to help first".
Although donations have been fewer, it is still humbling to look back at
the gifts Anna has received for her Angel Fund. We are so thankful for
the joy she continues to find in this work and we can't begin to
express what your support has meant to her, to us, and especially to so
many children who are fighting pediatric cancer.
On this Thanksgiving, we give thanks for many things, always including
you! You are the instrument of His peace, His grace, and His love for
these children and families that we care so much about. You give them
what they need, when they need it most. We could never possibly measure
the value of that or find a way to adequately thank you. We pray that
you and those you love will be blessed during this holiday season!
Happy Thanksgiving!
Lisa, Larry and Anna
"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it."
--William Arthur Ward
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